急需《人性的弱點(diǎn)》英文讀后感
As early as the middle of the 20th century, when the economic downturn, inequality, war is the devil indelible human pursuit of a better life of the soul, of Carnegie, with his insight into human nature, a large number of ordinary people constantly strive to achieve the success stories, through him, The speeches and writings arouse the morale of many a confused, encourage them to a brilliant success, as Mr. Carnegie said: A person's success, only 15 percent attributed to his expertise, 85 percent attributed to him Expression of thought, leading others and the ability to arouse the enthusiasm of others. The weakness of human nature, a book the author described as dealing, the rationale for doing things, so that impressed me most deeply in an article entitled unfavorable factors will translate into success factor, there has been a story to inspire Me. Happen in 1929, a youth to the mountains to cut down Hill walnut, he wood pile in the car, drove home. Suddenly a wooden sliding down, he is Jizhuan Wan, the wood in the axle of the card, he bounced to a tree, the spine was injured. Since then both legs paralyzed. At that time, young people aged 24, since then, he has not traversed step Road, was considered a lifetime spent in a wheelchair. Zuonong the fate of his resentment, but with age Jianchang, he found no resistance on their help, only to become their own Jiansuankebo. Others are courteous and good to me, I should at least have to respond to the courtesy and good people. More than 10 years have passed, some people asked him think that is an unfortunate incident? ? He said: No! I was almost glad that it happened. Shock and resentment that experience of the stage, he began reading the literature and culture from the hobby. 14, he read over 1,400 books, these books expand his vision, his life than in the past could have imagined even rich He also began listening to music, he moved before the symphony will only let him nap However, really the most important changes, or thought he had the time. The first time in my life, the real intentions of the world to see and appreciate its value, experience of previous efforts to pursue a lot of things have no real value. Since reading, he began the political interest in his study of public issues, in a wheelchair a speech. He began to understand people, and people have begun to know him, because such efforts, a local political figures from elevated to a national political figure. The legend is that Al ? Smith. He was re-elected governor of New York 4 session - then no one has such a record. In 1958, he was elected as the Democratic presidential candidate, and the results achieved so hard to make up for his deficiencies are inseparable. James once said: Their success is the most excited because some of the shortcomings of their potential. Yes, a lot of successful people is successful, because they have a capability, will be a negative factor for the successful conversion factor The ability of such capacity in general the depths of adversity, when almost no transfer will be inspired by, if Zhang Lincoln in a rich family, perhaps it can not become now the Americans can not forget a great leader. People always will be faced with difficult, in the face of failure, but this is not your retreat of the reasons people are above the other on biological, because he is extremely subjective initiative, he can to change some things, but not forever Quietly waiting for extinction. Life is not the most important thing you have used to measure the real important issue is how you from the loss of profit. This requires wisdom, it also shows the Sophia Xia Yu, the fate of each person to a lemon acid, it into a cup of sweet lemonade, this is our need to do, Carnegie, said: True happiness is not pleasant, it is more than a victory. Right, sometimes you win in possession of forged by the unfortunate, it is not in itself be good, but your training. Is you get rich inner world, can only become a victory. Also as the title human weakness, is full of human weaknesses, but because there are weaknesses, we may look forward to tomorrow will be better, be more perfect. 中譯: 早在20世紀(jì)中葉,當(dāng)經(jīng)景氣、不平等,戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)惡魔正在磨滅人類追求美好生活的心靈時(shí),卡耐基先生以他對(duì)人性的洞察,利用大量普通人不斷努力取得成功的故事,通過他的演講和著作喚起無數(shù)陷入迷茫的斗志者,激勵(lì)他們?nèi)〉幂x煌的成功,正如卡耐基先生所言:“一個(gè)人的成功,只有15%歸結(jié)于他的專業(yè)知識(shí),還有85%歸結(jié)于他表達(dá)思想、領(lǐng)導(dǎo)他人及喚起他人熱情的能力。
” 在《人性的弱點(diǎn)》一書中作者闡述了為人之道、處事之理,其中讓我印象最深刻的一篇文章名為《將不利因素轉(zhuǎn)化為成功因子》,里面的一個(gè)故事一直不斷地激勵(lì)著我。
事情發(fā)生在1929年,一個(gè)青年到山上去砍伐山胡桃木,他把木材堆在車上,開車回家。
忽然一根木條滑了下來,正在他急轉(zhuǎn)彎時(shí),木條卡在了車軸上,他被彈到一個(gè)樹上,脊椎骨受了傷。
雙腿從此癱瘓。
當(dāng)時(shí)年輕人才24歲,從那以后,他沒有再走過一步路,被認(rèn)為一輩子要在輪椅上度過。
他怨恨命運(yùn)的作弄,然而隨著年歲漸長(zhǎng),他發(fā)現(xiàn)抗拒對(duì)自己毫無幫助,只不過使自己變得尖酸刻薄。
別人都和善禮貌地對(duì)我,我起碼也應(yīng)該禮貌和善地回應(yīng)人家。
十幾年過去了,有些人問他覺得那次事件是個(gè)不幸嗎
他說:“不
我?guī)缀鯌c幸它的發(fā)生。
”經(jīng)歷那個(gè)震驚和憤恨的階段,他開始閱讀并培養(yǎng)起對(duì)文學(xué)的嗜好。
14年來,他讀了1400多本書籍,這些書拓展了他的視野,他的人生比以前所能想象的還要豐富;他也開始欣賞音樂,現(xiàn)在令他感動(dòng)的交響樂以前只會(huì)讓他打盹;然而,真正最重大的改變,還是他有了思考的時(shí)間。
“我一生中第一次,真正用心看世界,并體會(huì)其價(jià)值,體會(huì)到以前努力追求的很多事情都沒有真正的價(jià)值。
” 由于閱讀,他開始對(duì)政治感興趣,他研究公共問題,坐在輪椅上發(fā)表演說。
他開始了解人們,而人們也開始認(rèn)識(shí)他,因?yàn)檫@種努力,他由一位地方政治人物提升到全國(guó)性的政治人物。
這位傳奇人物就是阿爾?史密斯。
他曾連任4屆紐約州長(zhǎng)——當(dāng)時(shí)還沒有人擁有這樣的紀(jì)錄。
1958年,他當(dāng)選為民主黨總統(tǒng)候選人,取得這樣的成績(jī)和他用勤奮彌補(bǔ)缺憾是分不開的。
詹姆斯曾說過:“他們的成功大部分是因?yàn)槟撤N缺陷激發(fā)了他們的潛力。
”是的,很多成功人士之所以成功,是因?yàn)樗麄兙哂幸环N能力,一種將不利因素轉(zhuǎn)化為成功因子的能力,這種能力一般在深處逆境,幾乎沒有轉(zhuǎn)機(jī)時(shí)才會(huì)被激發(fā)出來,林肯如果生張?jiān)谝粋€(gè)富有的家庭,也許它不可能成為現(xiàn)在還讓美國(guó)人不能忘記的一位偉大領(lǐng)袖。
人總將面對(duì)坎坷,面對(duì)失敗,但這不是你退縮的理由;人之所以凌駕于其它生物之上,是因?yàn)樗哂袠O強(qiáng)的主觀能動(dòng)性,他能去改變一些事物,而不是永遠(yuǎn)的默默地等待滅亡。
人生最重要的不是用你所擁有的來衡量,真正重要的課題是如何從你的損失中獲利。
這才需要智慧,也才顯示出人的上智下愚,命運(yùn)交給每個(gè)人一個(gè)酸檸檬,把它做成一杯甜的檸檬汁,這才是我們需要做的,卡耐基先生說過:“真正的快樂不見得是愉悅的,它多是一種勝利。
”對(duì),有時(shí)候勝利發(fā)生在你身上的不幸所鑄就的,它本身不值得愉悅,但卻鍛煉了你。
是你得到充實(shí)的內(nèi)心世界,所以只能成為勝利。
還如書名《人性的弱點(diǎn)》一樣,人性確實(shí)充滿弱點(diǎn),但正因?yàn)榇嬖谌觞c(diǎn),我們才可能去期待明天會(huì)更好,會(huì)更完美。
人性的弱點(diǎn)用英語怎么說
the frailties of human nature 如果是的的話,就是How to Win Friends and Influence People其實(shí)這本書的原名是《溝通與人際關(guān)系——如何贏取友誼與影響他人》
求《人性的弱點(diǎn)》讀后感,原創(chuàng)
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注:僅代表‘第一次’讀后感,不代表以后。
《人性的弱點(diǎn)》讀后感 花了大概一個(gè)星期的時(shí)間終于讓我看完了這一本書《人性的弱點(diǎn)》,想必沒有哪個(gè)人比我花更短的時(shí)間來看完這本書。
說看完,我純粹是以走馬觀花的方式掃視掠過了每一章節(jié),只是偶爾會(huì)慢下來在認(rèn)為有意思的地方投許認(rèn)真的目光。
像書中提及的意思,這并不是一個(gè)聰明人的所為。
書本一開始就是自己吹擂了一番,然后是一大堆讓人質(zhì)疑和摸不著邊的成功事例。
但是待我看完了以后,感覺似乎領(lǐng)悟到了什么。
可是,如果要跟書中所提及的某某人物相比較,我所領(lǐng)悟到的而又能正常發(fā)揮出來的連一點(diǎn)皮毛都不值。
總的感覺是,紙上談兵與現(xiàn)實(shí)戰(zhàn)略難免會(huì)是脫節(jié)的,唯一能讓我意識(shí)到的是,突然發(fā)現(xiàn)了自己以前是個(gè)多么愚蠢的人。
或者說,自己本是庸人一個(gè),可是很多事例故事中的主人公都是從一個(gè)庸人開始的,只可惜上帝眷顧不及在自己身上。
如其埋怨命運(yùn)倒不如承認(rèn)書中問到的,是否具備了一種深入、前驅(qū)的學(xué)習(xí)欲望,一個(gè)增加你應(yīng)付他人能力的強(qiáng)烈決心。
我想起來了父親常跟我說的話,在工作之余要多看書。
我忽然間覺得這句話很有價(jià)值。
《人性的弱點(diǎn)》我還會(huì)重溫的。
求關(guān)于《人性的弱點(diǎn)》的讀書筆記,需500字。
《人性的弱點(diǎn)》讀后感 “你如果關(guān)心別人,在兩個(gè)月內(nèi)所交的朋友,就比一個(gè)需要關(guān)心他自己的人,在兩年之內(nèi)所交的朋友還要多。
”這是《人性的弱點(diǎn)》中的一句話。
友誼是我們每人都需要的,常言道“團(tuán)結(jié)就是力量”只有在朋友、親人的幫助下,才可能把事情辦好,《人性的弱點(diǎn)》就告訴了我們?nèi)绾乌A得朋友并建立良好的人際關(guān)系。
1、要批評(píng)或抱怨別人:是呀
批評(píng)是危險(xiǎn)的,因?yàn)槌3σ粋€(gè)人寶貴的自尊,傷害他的自重感,并激起他的反抗。
批評(píng)所引起的嫉妒,只會(huì)降低士氣和感情,同時(shí)指責(zé)的事情也不會(huì)有任何改善。
如果是好朋友,適當(dāng)?shù)慕ㄗh還是可以,但態(tài)度一定要溫和,朋友要是和我們意見不和,也要適可而止。
2、看到別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn),給予真摯誠(chéng)懇的贊賞:其實(shí),我們雖然供養(yǎng)我們的朋友的生活,但我們對(duì)他們自尊心的關(guān)注卻太少,而且也不知道給他們以贊賞的語言,而這恰恰是生活中的晨曲,將會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)記憶在人們的心靈深處。
每個(gè)人都喜歡聽好話,但不要虛偽的恭維,發(fā)現(xiàn)他們好的一面,給予肯定,這也是他們需要的語言。
3、激發(fā)別人內(nèi)心強(qiáng)渴望的需求:如果每人都可以設(shè)身處地地為別人著想,洞察別人心理的人,永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)擔(dān)心自己的前途。
首先要把握對(duì)方心中最迫切的需求。
如果能做到這點(diǎn),就可以如魚得水,否則就辦不成任何事。
我們常常以“站著說話不要疼”的態(tài)度說別人,其實(shí),我們有沒有真正從他們的角度、心情、處境去為他們考慮呢
沒有,從來沒有。
4、真誠(chéng)的關(guān)心別人:要對(duì)他人表示我們的關(guān)心,這于其他人際關(guān)系是同樣的道理;而且我們的這種關(guān)心是出自真誠(chéng)的。
這不僅使得付出關(guān)心的人會(huì)得到相應(yīng)的回報(bào),而得到這種關(guān)心的人也同樣有所收獲。
我們有真心的關(guān)心別人嗎
如果有,我們的朋友對(duì)我們一定會(huì)倍加喜愛,我認(rèn)為,誰都需要幫助,我們也會(huì)有脆弱的時(shí)候,當(dāng)朋友伸出援助之手,我們才會(huì)真正的體會(huì)溫暖,但不要忘記,什么都是相互的,我們的朋友也會(huì)有無助的時(shí)候,別忘記 自己有一份力量,也許正是這份力量,會(huì)讓他支撐起來,也許正是這份力量,我們的友誼更堅(jiān)固了。
5、發(fā)自內(nèi)心的微笑:行動(dòng)勝于言行。
做一個(gè)微笑者,微笑會(huì)讓人明白:“我喜歡你 ,你使我快樂,我高興見到你。
”微笑一下,只需要牽動(dòng)三條肌肉,這又何樂而不為呢
微笑一下,可以縮短人與人的距離;微笑一下,可以縮小空間的范圍;微笑一下,可以消除心靈之間的隔閡…… …… 《人性的弱點(diǎn)》讓我懂得太多太多,也讓我有了更多的好朋友。
“在人類的天性中,最深層的本性就是渴望得到別人的重視”請(qǐng)讓我們重視我們的朋友,讓友誼圍繞著你。
人性的弱點(diǎn)寫作背景
英文名為How to Win Friends and Influence People(如何贏取友誼與影響他人),這本書是經(jīng)過根據(jù)自己創(chuàng)辦的講習(xí)班的經(jīng)驗(yàn)反反復(fù)復(fù)修改實(shí)驗(yàn)的,中間還請(qǐng)人花了一年半的時(shí)間專門搜集資料,這本書是智慧與經(jīng)驗(yàn)的集大成。
主要的寫作時(shí)間應(yīng)該集中在30年代初開辦商界講習(xí)班至1936年出版該書的這一段時(shí)間,約摸也有五六年。
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求安徒生的《the red shoes》的英語讀后感(50字即可,小學(xué)水平,以下是中文的,但要英文
The red shoes teaches me if I only think of the red, I will lose all he other best color. And even I could have the best red, this will bring me other people's jealousy and even hatred.We need to stay satisfied so we can be really happy and enjoy the true life.