有人說(shuō)這個(gè)世界最傻的事，就是跑到不喜歡的人那里去問為什么。不喜歡就是不喜歡了，沒有為什么。就像一陣風(fēng)刮過，你要做的是，拍拍身上的灰塵，一轉(zhuǎn)身沉靜走開。然后，把這個(gè)不喜歡自己的人寂然忘掉。生活中有了不喜歡就學(xué)會(huì)改變，工作中有了不喜歡請(qǐng)先調(diào)整心態(tài)，拒絕就去拒絕，切記不可虛情假意。
這個(gè)世界，總有你不喜歡的人，也總有人不喜歡你。這都很正常。而且，無(wú)論你有多好，也無(wú)論對(duì)方有多好，都苛求彼此不得。因?yàn)椋貌缓檬且换厥?，喜歡不喜歡是另一回事。
刻意去討人喜歡，折損的，只能是自我的尊嚴(yán)。
不要用無(wú)數(shù)次的折腰，去換得一個(gè)漠然的低眉。紆尊降貴換來(lái)的，只會(huì)是對(duì)方愈發(fā)地居高臨下和頤指氣使。沒有平視，就永無(wú)對(duì)等。
也不要在喜歡不喜歡上，分出好人和壞人來(lái)。帶著情緒傾向的眼光，難免會(huì)陷入褊狹。咬人的，你不能說(shuō)它是壞狗。狗總是要咬人的，這是狗的天性和使命。也就是說(shuō)，在盯著別人的同時(shí)，還要看到自我的缺陷和不足。
當(dāng)然了，極致的喜歡，更像是一個(gè)自己與另一個(gè)自己在光陰里的隔世重逢。
愿為對(duì)方毫無(wú)道理地盛開，會(huì)為對(duì)方無(wú)可救藥地投入，這都是極致的喜歡。這時(shí)候，若只說(shuō)是脾氣、情趣和品性相投或相通，那不過是淺喜;最深的喜歡，就是愛，就是生命內(nèi)里的粘附和吸引，就是靈魂深處的執(zhí)著相守與深情對(duì)望。
這是一場(chǎng)詭秘而又盛大的私人化進(jìn)程。私人化的意思就是，即使無(wú)比錯(cuò)誤，也無(wú)限正確。有時(shí)候，你的無(wú)數(shù)個(gè)回眸，未必能看到一個(gè)擦肩而過。有時(shí)候，你拿出天使的心，并不一定換來(lái)天使的禮遇。如果對(duì)方不喜歡，都懶得為你裝一次天使。誰(shuí)也不需要逢場(chǎng)作戲。盡管，一時(shí)的虛情假意，也能撫慰人陶醉人，但終會(huì)留下搪塞的痛，敷衍的傷。
所以，這個(gè)世界最冒傻氣的事，就是跑到不喜歡的人那里去問為什么。不喜歡就是不喜歡了，沒有為什么。就像一陣風(fēng)刮過，你要做的是，拍拍身上的灰塵，一轉(zhuǎn)身沉靜走開。然后，把這個(gè)不喜歡自己的人寂然忘掉。
一個(gè)人，風(fēng)塵仆仆地活在這個(gè)世界上，要為喜歡自己的人而活著。這才是最好的態(tài)度。不要在不喜歡你的'人那里丟掉了快樂，然后又在喜歡自己的人這里忘記了快樂。
勉強(qiáng)不來(lái)的事情，不去追逐。
你為此而累的時(shí)候，或許對(duì)方也最累。你停下來(lái)了，你放下了，終會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，天不會(huì)塌，世界始終為所有人祥云繚繞。
誰(shuí)都在世俗的泥淖里撲騰著。有的人天生是來(lái)愛你的，有的人注定要來(lái)給你上課的。你苦心經(jīng)營(yíng)的，是對(duì)方不以為意的;你刻骨憎恨的，卻是對(duì)方習(xí)以為常的。喜歡與不喜歡之間，不是死磕，便是死擰。然而，這就是生活，有貼心的溫暖，也有刺骨的寒冷，不過是想讓你的人生，變得更加豐富，更加完整。
在遼闊的生命里，總會(huì)有一朵或幾朵祥云為你繚繞。與其在你不喜歡或不喜歡你的人那里苦苦掙扎，不如在這幾朵祥云下面快樂散步。天底下賞心快事不要那么多，只一朵，就足夠足夠。
1、就把你深深藏在我心中。
You hide in my heart deeply.
2、幸福！只存在你我相聚時(shí)刻…
Happiness! There is only you and I together time...
3、和你在一起只是我不想給任何人機(jī)會(huì)。
With you just I don't want to give anyone the chance.
4、親愛的，你能嫁給我嗎我嫁給你也行！
Honey, can you marry me, I'll marry you!
5、不知道愛你算不算是一個(gè)貼心的理由？
Don't know love you count is a close reason?
6、能夠遇見你，對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)是最大的幸福。
To meet you, for me, is the greatest happiness.
7、曾經(jīng)迷惘的心中，是你牽引我走出寂寞。
Ever lost in the heart, is you pull me out of loneliness.
8、給你一個(gè)心里的家，累了，我永遠(yuǎn)在等你
Give you a heart of the home, tired, I will always wait for you
9、生命里，最舍不得的那一頁(yè)，總是藏得最深。
Life, the most reluctant to the one page, always hide the deepest.
10、愛一個(gè)人，就要相信自己能給她最大的幸福！
To love a person, you must believe that you can give her the greatest happiness!
11、首先，我要感謝上帝，讓我又在這里遇上了你。
First of all, I would like to thank God, let me in here to meet you.
12、你是我生命中所能經(jīng)歷的，最最深切的感覺??！
You are my life, the most profound feeling!!
13、我想對(duì)你愛戀的極短詩(shī)篇升華為漫長(zhǎng)的生活散文。
I want to love you very short poems for the sublimation of life essays.
14、不是戀愛的感覺讓我幸福而是愛上你的感覺讓我幸福。
It's not being in love that makes me happy, but is being in love with you.
15、愛之火，在我倆的心中燃起，從此我倆將被熔在一塊。
The fire of love, in the hearts of both of us, we will be fused in a.
16、我之所以活到現(xiàn)在的全部意義，就是為了此刻能與你相遇。
The reason I live now is to meet you at this moment.
17、我的前世也許是只鳥。—如果你是一只鳥，那我也是一只鳥。
Maybe I was a bird in a previous life. If you were a bird, I am a bird, too.
18、你可知我百年的孤寂只為你一人守候，千夜的戀歌只為你一人而唱。
You know my loneliness is only one person waiting for you, thousands of my sweet songs are only sung for you.
19、沒有你，我的天空少了一片色彩；沒有你，我的世界多了一種思念。
Without you, my sky is missing a color; without you, my world is a kind of missing.
20、給我一次機(jī)會(huì)，我會(huì)讓你生活在陽(yáng)光里，我會(huì)為你成為只屬于你的太陽(yáng)。
Give me a chance, I will let you live in the sun, I will for you to become only belong to your sun.
21、時(shí)間的巨輪無(wú)法抹去我對(duì)你的思念縱使?？菔癄€，你的身影永存於我心中！
Time cannot erase my thoughts of you even if Haikudanlan, your shadow forever in my heart!
22、依據(jù)馬斯洛需求理論看，你就是我的最基本的生存需求，沒了你我沒心情賺錢。
According to Maslow demand theory, you are my most basic survival needs, not you and I do not have the mood to make money.
23、我愛你，不是因?yàn)槟闶且粋€(gè)怎樣的人，而是因?yàn)槲蚁矚g與你你在一起時(shí)的感覺。
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
24、現(xiàn)在我的生和死，快樂和痛苦，完全操縱在你的手中，你能夠賜予我圣潔的愛嗎？
25、牽著我的手，閉著眼睛走你也不會(huì)迷路。
Take my hand, eyes closed go you won't get lost.
26、如果這一生我們愛不夠，來(lái)世必能長(zhǎng)久。
If this life our love is not enough, the world will last long.
27、我不要短暫的溫存，只要你一世的陪伴。
I the short-time tenderness, as long as you life-long companion.
28、每一天都為你心跳，每一刻都被你感動(dòng)。
Every day for your heart, moved by you every minute.
29、不管今世也來(lái)世也好。我所要的只有你。
No matter this life and the afterlife. I want only you.
30、原來(lái)等待也可以如此的美麗，因?yàn)閻勰恪?/p>
Waiting can be so beautiful because of love you.
31、我會(huì)一直喜歡你，直到我變成成績(jī)優(yōu)異的學(xué)生為止。
I'll always love you, until I become outstanding students.
32、因?yàn)橹啦荒軟]有你，所以我會(huì)更珍惜。
Because you know that we can not live without you, so I'll be more cherish it.
33、有一種感動(dòng)叫分享，有一種幸福叫暗戀。
There is a kind of touched share is, there is a kind of happiness is called unrequited love.
34、你等著吧，總有一天你會(huì)是我兒子的媽媽！
You wait, one day you will be my son's mother!
35、我愿意愛你，照顧你、保護(hù)你，一生一世。
I am willing to love you, take care of you and protect you, whole life.
36、沒有不可原諒的錯(cuò)誤，只有無(wú)法挽回的人。
Not unforgivable mistake, only cannot be redeemed.
37、我在怎么欺騙自己，也掩飾不了我好想你。
I was how to cheat yourself, I do not hide the I miss you so much.
38、愛情使人忘記時(shí)間，時(shí)間也使人忘記愛情。
Love makes people forget time, time makes people forget love.
39、人總是會(huì)老的，希望到時(shí)，你仍在我身邊。
People will always be old, I hope, you're still by my side.
40、愛是誘惑，也惟有愛能給你力量抗拒誘惑。
Love is the temptation, also but love can give you strength to resist the temptation.
41、有些人說(shuō)不出哪里好，但就是誰(shuí)都替代不了！
Some people say a where good, but is who all don't replace!
42、因?yàn)閻圩?，所以放任，因?yàn)榉湃?，所以成全?/p>
Because of love, so let, because indulge, so perfect.
43、為什么暗戀那么好，因?yàn)榘祽購(gòu)膩?lái)不會(huì)失戀。
Why like so good, because like never brokenhearted.
44、什么時(shí)候，你會(huì)想我，有如，我這般的想你。
What time, you will want to me, like a, I miss you so.
45、只有你知我的情緒，也只有你能帶給我情緒。
Only you know my mood, only you can also bring my mood.
46、當(dāng)我想你的時(shí)候，你會(huì)不會(huì)也剛好正在想我。
When I miss you, you can also just are to me.
47、除了愛你。我想不出能使我繼續(xù)活著的理由。
In addition to love you. I can't think of to make me a reason to continue to live.
48、我不能先你離開人世，留你一個(gè)人孤獨(dú)終老！
Can't you die first, I leave you one person alone!
49、我們的認(rèn)識(shí)是一場(chǎng)意外，但它是美麗的意外。
We meet is an accident, but it is a beautiful accident.
50、在每一個(gè)有你相伴的夜，不再過于寂寥冷清。
In every night have you accompany, no longer lonely too cold and cheerless.
51、冷冷的夜里北風(fēng)吹，相思成灰，找不到人安慰。
Cold night the north wind blowing, long for into a grey, can not find comfort.
52、這一生我只牽你的手。因?yàn)榻裆心阍缫炎銐颉?/p>
This life I only hold your hand. Since life have you had enough.
53、如果我是蠟燭，希望你是火，我愿為你而燃燒。
If I were a candle, in the hope that you are the fire, I would like to burn for you.
54、地球仍然轉(zhuǎn)著，世間依舊善變，而我永遠(yuǎn)愛你。
Still turn the earth, the world is still fickle, but I love you forever.
55、只要你笑著面對(duì)壞天氣，陽(yáng)光永遠(yuǎn)照進(jìn)你心里。
As long as you smile in the face of the bad weather, the sun always shines into your heart.
1、樹苗如果因?yàn)榕峦炊芙^修剪，那就永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)成材。
Saplings if Patong and refused to trim, you will never grow.
2、命運(yùn)掌握在自己手中。坐在家里等什么房子，車子，還不如睡一覺做個(gè)好夢(mèng)。
Fate in their own hands. Sitting at home and so on what house, car, not as good as sleep to do a good dream.
3、要無(wú)條件自信，即使在做錯(cuò)的時(shí)候。
To unconditionally confident, even when you are wrong.
4、人生最大的喜悅是每個(gè)人都說(shuō)你做不到，你卻完成它了!
The greatest joy in life is that everyone says you can't do it, but you've done it!
5、自戀是源于對(duì)于生活的極端熱愛，對(duì)于細(xì)節(jié)以及享樂主義的不斷追求。
Narcissism is the extreme love for life, for the pursuit of details and hedonism.
6、我們一定不要當(dāng)三等公民：等下班、等薪水、等退休。
We must not be three and other citizens: and other work, and other salaries, etc..
7、寧可被人笑一時(shí)，不可被人笑一輩子。
Would rather be people laugh at a time, can not be laughed for a lifetime.
8、自律可以幫助你做你不想做但又必須做的事情。
Self discipline can help you to do what you don't want to do but have to do.
9、沒有清醒的頭腦，再快的腳步也會(huì)走歪;沒有謹(jǐn)慎的步伐，再平的道路也會(huì)跌倒。
Without a clear mind, and then the pace will go fast; there is no cautious pace, and then the road will fall flat.
10、駿馬是跑出來(lái)的，強(qiáng)兵是打出來(lái)的。
The horse is running out, therefore is playing out.
11、我們經(jīng)歷挫折，是因?yàn)樯咸觳辉试S我們停止努力。
We have a setback because God doesn't allow us to stop trying.
12、成功的秘訣在于堅(jiān)持自已的目標(biāo)和信念。
The secret of success is to stick to your goals and beliefs.
13、我們?nèi)诉@一輩子不是別人的楷模，就是別人的借鑒。
Our life is not the model of others, is the reference.
14、比我強(qiáng)大的人都在努力我還有什么理由不拼命。
Than I am strong people are trying to do I have any reason not to.
15、世上最累人的事，莫過于虛偽的過日子。
The most tiring thing in the world, falsely.
16、什么叫作失敗?失敗是到達(dá)較佳境地的第一步。
What is called failure? Failure is the first step to something better.
17、誰(shuí)把持自己未來(lái)的經(jīng)營(yíng)權(quán)，誰(shuí)就會(huì)成為強(qiáng)者，成為時(shí)俊。
Who controls the right to operate their own future, who will become the strong, when the handsome.
18、把氣憤的心境轉(zhuǎn)化為柔和，把柔和的心境轉(zhuǎn)化為愛，如此，這個(gè)世間將更加完美。
The angry mood into soft, the soft state of mind into love, so that the world will be more perfect.
19、偉人與常人最大的差別就在于珍惜時(shí)間。
The biggest difference between a great man and an ordinary man is to cherish the time.
20、愛情就像倆個(gè)拉著橡皮筋的人，受傷的總是不愿意放手的那一個(gè)。
Love is like two pull the rubber band, the injured is always reluctant to let go of that one.
21、勢(shì)不可使盡，福不可享盡，便宜不可占盡，聰明不可用盡。
The potential is not to do, can not enjoy the blessing, cheap is not ideally, smart is not exhausted.
22、只要你想種下美好記憶的種子，便能找到你心靈中的處女地。開墾吧，現(xiàn)在就開始。
If you want a good memory of the seed, will be able to find you in the heart of virgin land. Reclaim it, and now it begins.
23、活著的目的不在于永遠(yuǎn)活著，而在于永遠(yuǎn)活出自己。
The purpose of life is not to live forever, but to live forever.
24、如果不會(huì)飛翔，理想的翅膀反倒成了生活的累贅。
If it does not fly, the ideal of the wings have become a burden of life.
25、成功者學(xué)習(xí)別人的經(jīng)驗(yàn)，一般人學(xué)習(xí)自己的經(jīng)驗(yàn)。
Successful people learn from other people's experience, the average person to learn their own experience.
26、浪花，從不伴隨躲在避風(fēng)港的小表演，而始終追趕著拼搏向前的巨輪。
Along with the waves, never hide in the refuge of small performances, and always catch up with the struggle to move the ship.
27、人生是一個(gè)永不停息的工廠，那里沒有懶人的位置。工作吧!創(chuàng)造吧!
Life is a never-ending factory, where the location is not lazy. Work bar! Create bar!
28、我不去想是否能夠成功，既然選擇了遠(yuǎn)方，便只顧風(fēng)雨兼程!
I don't think whether can succeed, since the choice of the distance, they only trials and hardships!
29、記?。耗闶悄闵拇L(zhǎng)，走自己的路，何必在乎其它。
Remember: you are the captain of your life, take your own way, why care about other.
30、失敗也是我需要的，它和成功一樣有價(jià)值。
Failure is what I need, as well as success.
31、讓我們將事前的憂慮，換為事前的思考和計(jì)劃吧!
Let us put forward the worry, for the thought and the plan beforehand!
32、拼命去爭(zhēng)取成功，但不要期望一定會(huì)成功。
Try hard to win, but don't expect to be successful.
33、設(shè)立目標(biāo)，然后把目標(biāo)細(xì)化為每一步的實(shí)際行動(dòng)。
Set goals and then refine the goals for every step of the action.
34、只要是辛勤的蜜蜂，在生活的廣闊原野里，到處都可以找到蜜源。
As long as hard bees, in fields of life, can be found everywhere nectar.
35、寧愿辛苦一陣子，不要辛苦一輩子。
Would rather hard for a while, do not work hard for a lifetime.
36、人生最大的光榮，不在于永不失敗，而在于能屢仆屢起。
Life's greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
37、成大事不在于力量多少，而在能堅(jiān)持多久。
A big thing is not how much power, but how long it can persist.
38、對(duì)于攀登者來(lái)說(shuō)，失掉往昔的足跡并不可惜，迷失了繼續(xù)前時(shí)的方向卻很危險(xiǎn)。
For the climber, lose the footprints are unfortunately, lost to continue when the direction is very dangerous.
39、不要沉淪，在任何環(huán)境中你都可以選擇奮起。
Don't sink, you can choose to rise in any environment.
40、亦余心之所善兮，雖九死其猶未悔。
I have the good heart of the Xi, although nine still not regret.
41、人生就象一個(gè)球，無(wú)論如何滾來(lái)滾去，總有在一個(gè)點(diǎn)上停止的時(shí)候。
Life is like a ball, in any case, to roll to roll, there is always a point to stop the time.
42、面對(duì)機(jī)會(huì)，你要勇敢，輸也罷、贏也罷，都是一種經(jīng)歷，是一筆花錢買不來(lái)的財(cái)富。
In the face of opportunities, you have to be brave, lose or win worth mentioning, is a kind of experience, is a money can not buy the wealth.
43、一時(shí)的忍耐是為了更廣闊的自由，一時(shí)的紀(jì)律約束是為了更大的成功。
A moment of patience is for the broader freedom, a moment of discipline is to greater success.
44、當(dāng)你握著兩手沙子時(shí)，一定就拿不到地上那顆珍珠了。
When you hold your hands in the sand, you can't get the pearls on the ground.
45、我不喜歡戴手表，因?yàn)闀r(shí)間是個(gè)沉甸甸的東西。
I don't like to wear a watch, because time is a heavy thing.
46、經(jīng)驗(yàn)不是發(fā)生在一個(gè)人身上的事件，而是一個(gè)人如何看待發(fā)生在他身上的事。
Experience is not an event in one's body, but one's view of what is happening to him.
47、自己選擇的路，跪著也要把它走完。
Their choice of road, kneeling also want to finish it.
48、如果把才華比作劍，那么勤奮就是磨刀石。
If the talent to the sword, so hard is the grindstone.
49、從做需要做的事情開始，接著就做可能的事情，最后，你會(huì)突然做起不可能的事情。
Do what you need to do, and then do what is possible, and in the end, you will do the impossible.
50、海浪的品格，就是無(wú)數(shù)次被礁石擊碎又無(wú)數(shù)閃地?fù)湎蚪甘?/p>
The character of the waves, is the countless shattered rock and lots of shining on the reef.
51、天下餓不死手藝人，也只是餓不死而已。
The world is hungry, and it's just not going to die.
52、人格的完善是本，財(cái)富的確立是末。
The perfection of personality is the present, the establishment of wealth is the end.
53、千萬(wàn)別說(shuō)直到永遠(yuǎn)，因?yàn)槟銐焊恢烙肋h(yuǎn)有多遠(yuǎn)。
Never say never, because you don't know how far forever.
54、如煙往事俱忘卻，心底無(wú)私天地寬。
Forget all the past smoke, selfless world wide.
55、永不放棄是你夢(mèng)想實(shí)現(xiàn)的唯一秘訣。
Never give up is the only secret of your dream to come true.
56、做前，可以環(huán)視四周;做時(shí)，你只能或者最好沿著以腳為起點(diǎn)的射線向前。
Do, can look around; you can only do the best, or along the foot as the starting point of the forward ray.
57、隨隨便便浪費(fèi)的時(shí)間，再也不能贏回來(lái)。
Casually waste time, never win back.
58、涓涓細(xì)流一旦停止了喧嘩，浩浩大海也就終止了呼吸。
The trickle once stopped roaring, the vast sea stopped breathing.
59、善待他人，體諒他人，熱愛生命，努力生活。
Be kind to others, understand others, love life, and work hard.
60、聽說(shuō)青蛙只吃動(dòng)的東西，由此推斷：天鵝不動(dòng)的話青蛙是不會(huì)打她主意的。
I heard that the frog only eats something, and it is inferred that the frog will not make her mind.
61、你用什么優(yōu)勢(shì)贏得人生，就會(huì)用同樣的原因輸?shù)羧松?/p>
You use what advantage to win the life, you will lose the life with the same reason.
62、因?yàn)槟贻p我們一無(wú)所有，也正因?yàn)槟贻p我們將擁有一切。
Because young we have nothing, because we are young, we will have everything.
63、人生的勝者決不會(huì)在挫折面前失去勇氣。
The winners of life will never lose their courage in the face of setbacks.
64、當(dāng)你的能力還駕馭不了你的目標(biāo)時(shí)，那你就應(yīng)該沉下心來(lái)歷練。
When your ability also can't control your goal, you should devote to experience.
65、人生亦可燃燒，亦可腐`，我愿燃燒，耗盡所有的光芒。
Life can burn, can also corrupt, I would like to burn, burn out all the light.
66、男人多情而不專一，女人專一而絕情。
A man without sentimental single-minded, single-minded and unfeeling woman.
67、對(duì)于強(qiáng)者，要關(guān)注他們的靈魂，對(duì)于弱者，他關(guān)注他們的生存。
For the strong, to pay attention to their soul, for the weak, he is concerned about their survival.
68、當(dāng)困苦姍姍而來(lái)之時(shí)，超越它們會(huì)更有余味。
When hardship came when they will finish more than.
69、最好的改變方式，是我們跟內(nèi)在力量溝通，然后它會(huì)改變我們。
The best way to change is to communicate with the inner power, and then it will change us.
70、若不給自己設(shè)限，則人生中就沒有限制你發(fā)揮的藩籬。
If not to their limits, there is no restriction on the life of the fence you play.
71、青，取之于藍(lán)而青于藍(lán);冰，水為之而寒于水。
The green, blue and green in blue; ice, water for cold water.
72、如果你向神求助，說(shuō)明你相信神的能力;如果神沒有幫助你，說(shuō)明神相信你的能力。
If you ask for help, you believe in the power of God; if God does not help you, God that I believe in your ability.
73、奮斗者在汗水匯集的江河里，將事業(yè)之舟駛到了理想的彼岸。
Struggle in the sweat of the rivers, the cause of the boat to the ideal of the other side.
74、人在得意時(shí)需沉得住傲氣，在失意時(shí)則要忍得住火氣。
People need to sink up pride in prosperity, in adversity to resist fire.
75、除了自己，任何人都無(wú)法給你力量。
No one can give you strength except yourself.
76、紙上得來(lái)終覺淺，絕知此事要躬行。
The paper come Zhongjue shallow, and must know this to practice.
77、富人靠資本賺錢，窮人靠知識(shí)致富。
The rich rely on capital to make money, the poor rely on knowledge to get rich.
78、泉水，奮斗之路越曲折，心靈越純潔。
Spring, the struggle of the road twists and turns, the more pure heart.
79、每件事情都必須有一個(gè)期限，否則，大多數(shù)人都會(huì)有多少時(shí)間就花掉多少時(shí)間。
Everything must have a deadline, otherwise, most people will have much time to spend how much time.
80、成功的條件在于勇氣和自信，而勇氣和自信乃是由健全的思想和健康的體魄而來(lái)。
The condition of success is courage and confidence, and courage and confidence are made up of a sound mind and a healthy body.
