Mei laney of the novel is also very deep impression to the person, she was small, velvet glove, kind, has a amazing perseverance, can say is a great woman. When scarlett fast support not go down to her spiritual strength, when scarlett is people spit on efforts to maintain her. But scarlett hasn't been realized, and even hate her. Until mei laney before he died, she realised that she is can't live away from mei laney, mei laney is really love her, she also love mei laney. She rely on mei laney, just as she rely on their own. But then, mei laney but ASHLEY her husband and son are entrusted to her. Rich because ASHLEY is a focus on moral, reputation of the gentleman, in such a show at the war his helpless. Mei laney, a weak woman, she is brave strong and elegant gentleman ASHLEY scarlett's spiritual pillar, is also a charming fight, uninhibited, rhett trusted a great woman, showed her inner beauty.
Scarlett, seemingly innocent but cunning, competitive and stubborn tenacity, after love, civil war and the reconstruction, daughter died, her husband ran away, and so on a series of great difficulty and the setback, but she rarely shy, again and again to the life of the initiative back to their own hands. Whenever she is in difficulties, she thought: anyway, tomorrow is another day. Her optimism is the best expression of striving to improve life. She had loved two men, but didn't really get to know them, so we have both lost their. If she understand ASHLEY, she would never love him; If he really understand rhett, then she will not lose him.
Can let the audience and readers moved most is rhett to scarlett's love, reaching the limit of men love women. But he doing illegal business, hair is wealth, so has been spurned by people, and scarlett on its guard against one of the reasons, but largely meet every time he always said in her heart, and let angry scarlett, and love for him. Until they have a daughter, love transferred to daughter, only for him to change his views, but the daughter died, his love for scarlett also disappeared that maketh all.
小說(shuō)中的玫蘭妮也給人非常深刻的印象，她身材嬌小，外柔內(nèi)剛，善良，卻有著驚人的毅力，可以說(shuō)是偉大的女人。在斯佳麗快支撐不下去的時(shí)候給她以精神力量，在斯佳麗被人們唾棄時(shí)以全力來(lái)維護(hù)她。但斯佳麗一直沒(méi)意識(shí)到，甚至恨她。直到玫蘭妮臨死前，她才意識(shí)到自己離了玫蘭妮是活不下去的，玫蘭妮才是真正愛她的，她也愛玫蘭妮。她依賴玫蘭妮，正象她依賴自己一樣。可這時(shí)，玫蘭妮卻又把丈夫阿希禮和兒子都托付給了她。因?yàn)榘⑾６Y是一個(gè)內(nèi)蘊(yùn)豐富注重道德，名譽(yù)的紳士，在這樣的戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)年代就顯出了他的無(wú)能為力。 玫蘭妮，一個(gè)弱小的女子，她卻是勇敢堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的斯佳麗和儒雅紳士阿希禮的精神支柱，也是風(fēng)流倜儻、豪放磊落的瑞特值得信賴的偉大的女人，顯示出了她的內(nèi)在美。
斯佳麗，貌似天真卻富于心計(jì)，爭(zhēng)強(qiáng)好勝又倔強(qiáng)堅(jiān)韌，歷經(jīng)情場(chǎng)失意，內(nèi)亂戰(zhàn)火，家園重建，愛女夭折，丈夫出走等等一連串巨大的困難和挫折，但是她很少膽怯，一次次重新把生活的主動(dòng)權(quán)奪回到自己手中。每當(dāng)她在遇到難題時(shí)，她就想：不管怎么說(shuō)，明天又是新的一天。便是她樂(lè)觀自強(qiáng)人生的最好表白。她愛過(guò)兩個(gè)男人，但都沒(méi)有真正去了解他們，所以才雙雙失去了他們。如果她了解過(guò)阿希禮，她就決不會(huì)愛他了;如果他真正了解過(guò)瑞特，那么她就不會(huì)失去他了。
可最讓觀眾和讀者感動(dòng)的.是瑞特對(duì)斯佳麗的愛，達(dá)到了男人愛女人的極限。但他做不法的生意，發(fā)的是不義之財(cái)，所以一直被人們所唾棄，也是斯佳麗對(duì)其產(chǎn)生防范的一個(gè)原因，但主要還是每次相逢他總說(shuō)中她的內(nèi)心，而讓斯佳麗惱火，從而對(duì)他的愛產(chǎn)生懷疑。直到有了女兒，把愛轉(zhuǎn)移到女兒身上，人們才對(duì)他改變了看法，但女兒夭折，他對(duì)斯佳麗的愛也消失貽盡。
電影《亂世佳人》
人對(duì)命運(yùn)的敬畏，是在對(duì)自己、對(duì)人生、對(duì)愛情有了比較多的認(rèn)識(shí)之后。
亂世，是外在的命運(yùn)。而性格，是內(nèi)在的命運(yùn)。
性格是天生的，但觀念和習(xí)慣的形成很大程度上與父母的教育方式有關(guān)，而且通常來(lái)說(shuō)，長(zhǎng)子和長(zhǎng)女受父母的影響相對(duì)其他子女會(huì)更深些。
(一)
故事的開頭，一副淑女打扮的斯嘉麗聽一對(duì)雙胞胎男青年偶然提起，她所愛的艾希禮就要和另一個(gè)女孩梅蘭妮訂婚了。她又驚詫又痛苦，覺得心都要裂開了，很快就動(dòng)身去找艾希禮，她不能就這么算了，她要挽回這一切。
斯嘉麗是家中的長(zhǎng)女。所謂淑女，對(duì)她來(lái)說(shuō)，只是外在的裝飾。她的個(gè)性太強(qiáng)，因而生活對(duì)她來(lái)說(shuō)，就是不能逆來(lái)順受，所以她要抗?fàn)?，要搶奪，總想要回她覺得她應(yīng)該得到的幸福。只是，她不知道，也許一開始她就迷失了方向，也許她一直追求的一切，都只是表面的存在。人生不是只有愛情，但愛情的錯(cuò)誤難道不會(huì)帶來(lái)整個(gè)人生的錯(cuò)誤嗎?
母親對(duì)斯嘉麗進(jìn)行的淑女式的教育雖然沒(méi)有在少女時(shí)代的她身上成為完美的現(xiàn)實(shí)——她的個(gè)性更像她的父親，卻在她內(nèi)心深處造成了一種由于自己不能真正成為母親的驕傲而導(dǎo)致的心理暗影，她對(duì)有優(yōu)雅舉止談吐的艾希禮的愛慕也許也與這一點(diǎn)有關(guān)。
年輕的斯嘉麗沒(méi)有意識(shí)到，就她的個(gè)性而言，母親的正面影響是要在她的外貌不再具有對(duì)男人致命的吸引力以后。而在她剛走出少女時(shí)代去承擔(dān)社會(huì)角色時(shí)，就她的個(gè)性而言，她暫時(shí)疏遠(yuǎn)母親的教育影響，向她的父親學(xué)習(xí)，這一點(diǎn)并沒(méi)有錯(cuò)。
艾希禮是家中的長(zhǎng)子。對(duì)于他來(lái)說(shuō)，梅蘭妮和斯嘉麗是他從小就相識(shí)的最親密的女孩。梅蘭妮的溫柔賢淑是他喜歡的，斯嘉麗的活潑美麗也是他喜歡的，梅蘭妮喜歡靜靜地聽他朗誦，斯嘉麗喜歡他教她騎馬，她們都崇拜他，這對(duì)于從小就因表現(xiàn)優(yōu)秀而遭受其他男孩嫉妒的他來(lái)說(shuō)，她們是他少年時(shí)代常有的精神上的疑惑的最好安慰。
在父母幫艾希禮選擇了梅蘭妮時(shí)，他并沒(méi)有馬上回應(yīng)。他有點(diǎn)失落，雖然上帝知道他寧愿犧牲自己也不愿因?yàn)檫x擇這一個(gè)而傷了另一個(gè)的心，但是在他并沒(méi)有完全消失的少年的激情里也許還是斯嘉麗比梅蘭妮更讓他心動(dòng)一點(diǎn)吧。他也有點(diǎn)顧慮，由家庭的嚴(yán)格教養(yǎng)而得來(lái)的習(xí)慣，指出他的愛情應(yīng)當(dāng)服務(wù)于他的整個(gè)人生，而他的整個(gè)人生應(yīng)當(dāng)符合父母的期望——成為南方的上流人物，理智告訴他在這方面梅蘭妮比斯嘉麗對(duì)他更合適?，F(xiàn)在，他的激情，他的理智，面臨著二選一的考驗(yàn)，他該怎么辦呢?在父母的面前，他最終決定以一種平靜地態(tài)度來(lái)接受這一切。父母離去后，他心里充滿惘然，無(wú)論如何，他明白他多少還有點(diǎn)率性的少年時(shí)代就要結(jié)束了，從此他要用一個(gè)成年紳士的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)來(lái)生活了。
在家人為艾希禮籌備訂婚儀式時(shí)，他知道他本來(lái)應(yīng)當(dāng)找個(gè)時(shí)間去見斯嘉麗，告訴她這件事，跟她解釋，請(qǐng)求她的原諒。但是他應(yīng)當(dāng)怎樣說(shuō)服斯嘉麗接受這一切呢?斯嘉麗可能像他這么冷靜嗎?而他能保證在斯嘉麗的眼淚下他還能這么冷靜嗎?他能對(duì)斯嘉麗撒謊說(shuō)他不愛她嗎?而且斯嘉麗總會(huì)用她自己的辦法來(lái)解決問(wèn)題的，那時(shí)他又該怎么辦，也許真的要私奔了呢，那不就毀了這場(chǎng)訂婚儀式，也毀了他們?nèi)齻€(gè)人的將來(lái)嗎?最后他只有安慰自己，總有人會(huì)告訴斯嘉麗這件事的，而只要他從此與斯嘉麗保持距離，她會(huì)慢慢忘記他的。
但艾希禮對(duì)斯嘉麗的估計(jì)還是太低了。斯嘉麗并沒(méi)有因?yàn)槿鄙偎呐浜隙p易放棄對(duì)他的追求，大吵一場(chǎng)還是難免，對(duì)她來(lái)說(shuō)，即使私奔的機(jī)會(huì)終于沒(méi)有了，但刺激一下他的機(jī)會(huì)還是有的，查爾斯——梅蘭妮的弟弟，成了她的救星。即使，瑞德也出現(xiàn)了，而且還聽到了她和艾希禮的爭(zhēng)吵，但這時(shí)的瑞德，在她看來(lái)只是一個(gè)可惡的偷聽別人墻角的壞痞子，而她想也沒(méi)想過(guò)幾年后會(huì)與瑞德結(jié)婚的。
也許對(duì)艾希禮來(lái)說(shuō)，他命中注定要夾在兩個(gè)女人當(dāng)中左右為難吧。但至少，婚后的蜜月成了他一生中最幸?？鞓?lè)的時(shí)光，他發(fā)現(xiàn)了梅蘭妮是他極好的妻子，使他對(duì)未來(lái)更加充滿信心，雖然，他見到斯嘉麗時(shí)她總表現(xiàn)得有點(diǎn)哀怨，但一切的不愉快總會(huì)過(guò)去的，不是嗎?只是，戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)的烏云越來(lái)越濃厚了。
艾希禮是個(gè)天生的南方紳士，他對(duì)保持秩序的興趣遠(yuǎn)大于對(duì)改變世界的興趣，如果沒(méi)有戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)，他可以成為南方上層社會(huì)的名流典范。但戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)無(wú)可避免地到來(lái)，使他也只有走上戰(zhàn)場(chǎng)，雖然他心里是那么地厭惡戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)，為雙手沾滿鮮血而噩夢(mèng)連連，而且，和瑞德一樣，他對(duì)南方的戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)前景也并不看好。
戰(zhàn)后，艾希禮身心疲憊地從戰(zhàn)俘營(yíng)里被釋放回來(lái)。然而，南方的戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)結(jié)束了，他的戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)卻還在延續(xù)。亂世和窮困，粉碎了他的矜持，使他在不得不面對(duì)戰(zhàn)場(chǎng)的殘酷之后，還要不得不面對(duì)生活的殘酷，他的痛苦，他的失落，越來(lái)越深了。
艾希禮并非不想努力去改變自己、改變命運(yùn)。從戰(zhàn)場(chǎng)上回來(lái)一段時(shí)間后，他也曾想去紐約闖蕩一番事業(yè)，但面對(duì)兩個(gè)女人的哀求，愛情戰(zhàn)勝了雄心，最終使他留了下來(lái)，失去了也許是最后一次改變自己命運(yùn)的機(jī)會(huì)。
兩個(gè)女人在現(xiàn)實(shí)事務(wù)方面的包辦，使艾希禮后來(lái)一直無(wú)所作為，使他越到后來(lái)越傾向于精神上的幻想。但梅蘭妮了解了他變得越來(lái)越不合時(shí)宜的脆弱還是愛他，而斯嘉麗以為他依然還是受難的王子而在愛他，所以，實(shí)際上越到后來(lái)梅蘭妮對(duì)于他的人生意義越大些。
但最后，艾希禮生活的平衡，隨著梅蘭妮的去世，再一次被打破了，他唯有痛苦地追問(wèn)命運(yùn)：為什么要這樣捉弄他?
艾希禮人生的悲劇，在他當(dāng)初輕易答應(yīng)父母為他選擇的婚姻對(duì)象時(shí)就已埋下了伏筆。人生的有些難題是不能繞開的，必須面對(duì)，繞開了，就失去了自己。假如他當(dāng)初有勇氣在回答父母之前，先與斯嘉麗和梅蘭妮坦誠(chéng)相見，再做出自己的人生選擇，也許情況會(huì)好些。但他沒(méi)有這樣做，他當(dāng)時(shí)也沒(méi)有意識(shí)到，他的自以為是在他的心靈上悄悄劃了一道傷痕，傷痕雖然不深，卻會(huì)一直難以愈合，他本身的主動(dòng)面對(duì)人生挑戰(zhàn)的勇氣將因此一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)流失，最后，使他趨于平庸。
(二)
斯嘉麗對(duì)艾希禮的固執(zhí)的迷戀，讓瑞德對(duì)他和斯嘉麗的婚后生活深感失望。他們的情感沖突一次又一次，因?yàn)樗麄兌纪瑯拥墓虉?zhí)。最后，瑞德無(wú)奈地認(rèn)輸了，并把他從斯嘉麗那里得不到回報(bào)的情感都寄托在女兒邦妮的身上，寵愛得遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)超過(guò)了一般父親。而后來(lái)邦妮騎馬時(shí)的意外出事，也給瑞德和斯嘉麗的婚姻造成了難以彌補(bǔ)的傷痕，只是在梅蘭妮的安慰和協(xié)調(diào)下，情況才沒(méi)有過(guò)于惡化。
梅蘭妮是家中的長(zhǎng)女。家境的僅僅小康使她從小就感受到生活的壓力，而沒(méi)有像斯嘉麗一樣一味沉溺于對(duì)愛情游戲的幻想。她的父母對(duì)子女關(guān)注的焦點(diǎn)是她的弟弟查爾斯，而不是她，這使她也沒(méi)有受到如斯嘉麗那樣一言一行、一舉一動(dòng)都要被乳母糾正的嚴(yán)格的淑女教育，她不是憑教條，她是在實(shí)際生活中自己領(lǐng)悟到怎樣成為一個(gè)真正的淑女的。所以她的眼光既相通于世俗，又超越了世俗，從她對(duì)瑞德的情人貝爾的尊重就可見一斑。
梅蘭妮和斯嘉麗最大的不同，在于她早就清楚地了解艾希禮的優(yōu)點(diǎn)和缺點(diǎn)，她憐惜他，用心去愛他。她幾乎是天生的賢妻良母，甚至比斯嘉麗的母親更出色一些。梅蘭妮也同樣了解斯嘉麗，她并非不知道斯嘉麗對(duì)艾希禮的情愫，但她也明白斯嘉麗的驕傲和艾希禮的修養(yǎng)使得他們的關(guān)系不可能有什么進(jìn)一步的發(fā)展。她的天性反而使她同情他們，包容他們，把他們都當(dāng)作親人。對(duì)于瑞德，她知道他意志堅(jiān)定、世事洞徹、手段非凡，她也明白他的弱點(diǎn)就是感情，他只有愛了，才會(huì)享受被愛，他的沖動(dòng)，緣于他不可抑制地愛，他的痛苦，緣于他認(rèn)為應(yīng)當(dāng)屬于他私有的愛不屬于他私有，所以她才會(huì)在臨終前希望斯嘉麗珍惜瑞德的愛。梅蘭妮和瑞德雖然成長(zhǎng)背景、性格習(xí)慣差異很大，幾乎是兩個(gè)世界的人，但他們的智力結(jié)構(gòu)相似，對(duì)對(duì)方的人格魅力也彼此欣賞。正是對(duì)梅蘭妮的出于內(nèi)心的尊重，使瑞德容忍了斯嘉麗和艾希禮童話一樣的愛情。所以，梅蘭妮的存在，是所有這些主人公平靜生活的定心石。
瑞德是家中的獨(dú)子。他從小就過(guò)于聰明，因而最受不了的就是強(qiáng)迫他遵守他認(rèn)為是錯(cuò)誤的規(guī)則，從西點(diǎn)軍校退學(xué)是他的叛逆性的最強(qiáng)烈的一次迸發(fā)。但是，他能從社會(huì)上學(xué)到的東西遠(yuǎn)比他能從學(xué)校里學(xué)到的東西多，所以，他在對(duì)現(xiàn)實(shí)的理解上、在對(duì)商業(yè)機(jī)會(huì)的把握上、在對(duì)人情世故的運(yùn)用上，反而比一般循規(guī)蹈矩的人更強(qiáng)得多。事業(yè)的成功對(duì)他并非一件難事，因此他把他要尋找的刺激轉(zhuǎn)移到了愛情上來(lái)。他不只有過(guò)貝爾一個(gè)情人，但貝爾的人格的獨(dú)立性令他欣賞，所以他保留了她作為他的長(zhǎng)期秘密伴侶。他喜歡貝爾，但沒(méi)有愛上她，雖然他知道貝爾是真的愛他，但是他需要精神上對(duì)他誘惑性更大的女人。
瑞德當(dāng)初愛上斯嘉麗，正是因?yàn)樗谒砩峡吹搅艘环N與他的本性相似的一面——對(duì)世俗虛偽的不屑、強(qiáng)烈的野性的生命力和不顧一切地追求自己喜歡的東西。上帝知道他的心是多么孤獨(dú)，他不由自主地關(guān)注她，進(jìn)而漸漸地愛上她。他和斯嘉麗一樣，本來(lái)就對(duì)越得不到的東西越感興趣，加上斯嘉麗對(duì)他的一次次完美出場(chǎng)總是毫不在乎，毫不感激，讓他對(duì)斯嘉麗更加念念不忘，并對(duì)自己居然會(huì)輸給艾希禮耿耿于懷。
但后來(lái)瑞德迫不及待地要與斯嘉麗結(jié)婚，從結(jié)果來(lái)看證明是個(gè)錯(cuò)誤。他在求婚時(shí)就已經(jīng)很清楚他要面對(duì)的情況，只是他的自負(fù)讓他以為他能處理好。他從來(lái)沒(méi)有這樣想得到一個(gè)人，想擁有她，想融化她，只是他沒(méi)有想到她不是一般的堅(jiān)冰。他在她還沒(méi)有發(fā)現(xiàn)她會(huì)愛上他之前就娶了她，因?yàn)樗嘈抛约哼h(yuǎn)比艾希禮強(qiáng)多了，沒(méi)有可能強(qiáng)者會(huì)輸給弱者，只是他沒(méi)有想到她雖然表面上看來(lái)那么精明，骨子里卻還是個(gè)傻女人。他以為婚姻是愛情的溫床，他以為時(shí)間的推移會(huì)慢慢改變她，只是他沒(méi)有想到他與她的婚姻對(duì)他來(lái)說(shuō)雖然是第一次，對(duì)她來(lái)說(shuō)卻已經(jīng)是第三次，她既然能不因?yàn)閻矍槎喗Y(jié)前兩次婚姻，就已說(shuō)明婚姻對(duì)她來(lái)說(shuō)只是意味著一種法律上的手續(xù)，對(duì)丈夫不屑于愛已經(jīng)成為了她的習(xí)慣。所以，兩個(gè)人婚姻的悲劇從某種角度說(shuō)是緣于他的自以為是和無(wú)知。一方面他對(duì)斯嘉麗估計(jì)過(guò)高、對(duì)婚姻無(wú)知、對(duì)孩子溺愛，另一方面他又一直在努力盡著一個(gè)丈夫和父親的責(zé)任，因此很難給他適當(dāng)?shù)脑u(píng)價(jià)，也許再精明的男人在愛情真正到來(lái)時(shí)，都會(huì)犯傻。
人在年輕的時(shí)候，不可能什么都學(xué)會(huì)，因?yàn)槿松缆飞系囊恍┲匾恼J(rèn)識(shí)，是要自己經(jīng)歷過(guò)后才會(huì)懂得。
對(duì)于一個(gè)年輕人來(lái)說(shuō)，有自己的想法是很自然的事，雖然很多時(shí)候不一定真能那么自信，而傳統(tǒng)是不容易理解的，雖然很多時(shí)候按照傳統(tǒng)的想法去做很容易得到長(zhǎng)輩的贊揚(yáng)。只是，雖然年輕人也能和老年人講一樣的話，但在老年人的話里，包含了他自己對(duì)生活的全部理解。
瑞德和艾希禮最大的不同，在于瑞德相信自己遠(yuǎn)勝于相信傳統(tǒng)，所以他從小就把自己按照自己的想法來(lái)塑造，而艾希禮相信傳統(tǒng)遠(yuǎn)勝于相信自己，所以他從小就把自己按照傳統(tǒng)的想法來(lái)塑造。瑞德和艾希禮的相同之處，在于他們都以為他們自己的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)就是生活的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，覺得人生應(yīng)當(dāng)按他們自己設(shè)想的那樣才對(duì)，他們都過(guò)早對(duì)自己有了太大的自信，對(duì)生活有了太高的期望。但是，命運(yùn)是多么地令人難以想像呀!
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梅蘭妮的去世，最后打破了生活的平靜。
悲傷的氣氛使斯嘉麗的直覺變得無(wú)比敏銳，因?yàn)檫@一次的悲傷與前幾次不同，這一次她不是主人。面對(duì)著為梅蘭妮的逝去滿懷悔恨、悲痛欲絕的艾希禮，斯嘉麗突然間發(fā)現(xiàn)，她對(duì)艾希禮的愛情全都消失了。她開始還以為這是她的錯(cuò)覺，然而她再注視著艾希禮時(shí)，她的心里再也感覺不到愛情的存在。她最初是那樣地愛艾希禮，這是真的。但她以為歲月的流逝并沒(méi)有減少她對(duì)艾希禮的愛，這只是她自己的固執(zhí)。在她決定嫁給梅蘭妮的弟弟時(shí)，她對(duì)艾希禮已經(jīng)失望了一次。在她為戰(zhàn)后桃瑞園的稅金找艾希禮求助時(shí)，她對(duì)艾希禮又失望了一次。面對(duì)梅蘭妮的去世艾希禮只想著他自己，讓她對(duì)艾希禮再一次失望了。
斯嘉麗心里的堅(jiān)冰一下子破碎了，她想哭，她覺得她其實(shí)不該承受這么多，上帝知道她也需要有人來(lái)安慰她，以前還有梅蘭妮，現(xiàn)在還有誰(shuí)?她想起她遇到的一次次難關(guān)實(shí)際上都是經(jīng)歷了怎樣的痛苦才渡過(guò)的——上帝知道她是多么需要真的去愛，只有愛才能使她堅(jiān)強(qiáng)地?fù)蜗氯ァ?/p>
斯嘉麗心里所有被壓抑的情緒都迸發(fā)出來(lái)了，她從來(lái)沒(méi)有這樣悲傷過(guò)，以前的憤忿都變成了悔恨。漸漸地，瑞德的影子在她心里開始清晰起來(lái)，他在她危急關(guān)頭的神兵天降、他的嘲諷、他的悲傷、他的親吻、他的粗魯——她早就知道他這都是為了她，或因?yàn)樗?，但是她一直沒(méi)有在意，以為他只是在炫耀，或在嫉妒。不是，她現(xiàn)在清楚地感覺到了那不是，他是真的愛她?？伤趺船F(xiàn)在才發(fā)現(xiàn)呢?因?yàn)榘６Y嗎?
斯嘉麗心里激動(dòng)莫名，又惶惑不安，她還有一些東西不明白，最初她是愛艾希禮而不愛瑞德的.，但究竟是什么力量——是什么力量使她和艾希禮的距離越來(lái)越遠(yuǎn)，和瑞德卻越來(lái)越近呢?與瑞德相處的情景在她心中一幕幕浮現(xiàn)：為什么當(dāng)初在桃瑞園交不出稅金艾希禮又讓她失望時(shí)她會(huì)想起去找瑞德，為什么她會(huì)答應(yīng)瑞德的求婚，為什么蜜月旅行時(shí)深夜里她會(huì)縮在瑞德懷里哭，為什么從梅蘭妮的生日宴會(huì)歸來(lái)后半夜里她會(huì)睡不著下樓去看瑞德，還有，為什么她一次次在瑞德面前總是習(xí)慣發(fā)脾氣，她真的是那么討厭他嗎?也許不是，也許她是不由自主地想依靠他，她覺得他能給她幫助，能讓她安心。她想起當(dāng)她試圖在瑞德面前偽裝自己時(shí)，總是立刻被他拆穿，讓她惱羞成怒，她也想起當(dāng)她高度現(xiàn)實(shí)的一面表現(xiàn)出來(lái)時(shí)，艾希禮讓她覺得自己做錯(cuò)了事，而梅蘭妮體諒她，至于瑞德——欣賞她。也許，瑞德才是她的另一半，只是以前她沒(méi)仔細(xì)想。也許，當(dāng)她第一次成為寡婦，在義賣會(huì)上遭遇白眼，只有瑞德不屑世俗請(qǐng)她跳舞時(shí)，她的內(nèi)心深處就開始偷偷愛上了他。
斯嘉麗的心開始砰砰直跳，她心里有個(gè)聲音告訴她，這不是也許，這是真的?，F(xiàn)在她要馬上找到瑞德，她要跟他說(shuō)，她愛他，她好幾年前就開始不知不覺地愛他了，她不能沒(méi)有他。她從來(lái)沒(méi)有這樣沖動(dòng)過(guò)，她從來(lái)沒(méi)有這樣覺得自己不可抑制地愛上一個(gè)人，連她當(dāng)初對(duì)艾希禮那樣執(zhí)著的愛跟現(xiàn)在也沒(méi)法比。她急匆匆地跑回家，她在空蕩蕩的家里到處尋找瑞德，他在哪，他在哪，上帝知道她是多么害怕在失去梅蘭妮后又再失去他呀。
瑞德在樓上的起居室里，他坐在椅子上，茫然地看著窗外的天空。他覺得累了，幾年來(lái)愛情的烈火對(duì)他的折磨，已經(jīng)把他的心烤焦了。他問(wèn)自己：他還愛著斯嘉麗嗎?真正的愛即使成了灰燼也還是愛，而不是恨——他已經(jīng)明白。只是像從前那樣熱情似火的愛，他已經(jīng)陌生了。幸福是兩個(gè)人的合唱，而不是一個(gè)人的獨(dú)唱——他已經(jīng)知道。只是他一直以來(lái)那么想得到幸福卻一直得不到，讓他懷疑自己是不是命中注定如此。他愛著不愛他的人，愛他的人他不愛——他不明白上帝為什么要這樣安排。如果這是上帝和他的較量，他已經(jīng)認(rèn)輸了。房子里的一切都在勾起他的回憶，雖然有些是那么美好，更多的卻是痛苦，還是離開的好。至于斯嘉麗，她總會(huì)自己安排好自己的，再說(shuō)，他為她做了那么多，也已經(jīng)夠了。即使有一天她會(huì)真的愛上他，難道一切不是太遲了嗎?一切還能從頭再來(lái)嗎?他能忘記那些痛苦的記憶嗎?既然愛情難免痛苦，他為什么不試一試遠(yuǎn)離愛情呢?享受生活比為愛情受苦更有意義，不是嗎?安逸、尊嚴(yán)、文雅、溫和——他以前一直蔑視的貴族紳士的那一套精神秩序，難道不正是為了像他這樣看透了愛情的中年男士準(zhǔn)備的嗎?他漸漸回憶起了他的婚前生活以及更早的成長(zhǎng)經(jīng)歷，他有了一種新的沖動(dòng)——他要回一次查爾斯頓——他的家鄉(xiāng)，他離開那里太久了，他要回去，他要重新感受一下少年時(shí)代他曾呼吸過(guò)的那些泥土的芳香，見一見那些與他從小一起長(zhǎng)大但久已未見的老朋友，也許還會(huì)得到什么新的啟示也說(shuō)不定——他以前總是走得太急，難免忽略一些東西。別了，斯嘉麗，他愛她，永遠(yuǎn)，但他現(xiàn)在要愛自己了。
故事的結(jié)尾，在相識(shí)十二年、結(jié)婚八年后，四十五歲的瑞德選擇了獨(dú)自離開，而二十八歲的斯嘉麗也獨(dú)自回歸了她的桃瑞園，他們都同樣需要平復(fù)自己的悲傷，重新汲取為了生活和愛情而奮斗的力量!
人的命運(yùn)，或向上或向下，有開始必然有終結(jié)，有結(jié)果必然有原因。但人只有在一次次不得不面對(duì)各種無(wú)法扭轉(zhuǎn)的令其痛苦的生活狀況時(shí)，才會(huì)一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)反省自己：我的生活，到底是在哪里出了問(wèn)題?
愛情，是人在年輕時(shí)所無(wú)限向往和執(zhí)著追求的人生目標(biāo)之一。但是，人在年輕時(shí)對(duì)人生的認(rèn)識(shí)事實(shí)上有很大的矛盾，一方面，人自己的潛意識(shí)為人默默指引著人的自然需求，另一方面，人自己的意識(shí)為人熱烈指引著人的社會(huì)需求，而這兩方面往往各行其是，競(jìng)相爭(zhēng)奪對(duì)自身的支配權(quán)，愛情也是如此。
只是到了人不再年輕時(shí)，才恍然發(fā)覺：人生總有另外一面，從自然的角度說(shuō)，人總是會(huì)老的，從社會(huì)的角度說(shuō)，人的處境也總是會(huì)變的，許多事情，年代過(guò)了，意義也就不同了，許多問(wèn)題，地位變了，角度也就不同了，過(guò)去認(rèn)為應(yīng)當(dāng)那樣才對(duì)的東西，現(xiàn)在卻認(rèn)為應(yīng)當(dāng)這樣才好。
當(dāng)青春成為昨天時(shí)，人首先應(yīng)當(dāng)努力的，往往不在于解決好外界存在的問(wèn)題，而在于解決好自身存在的矛盾。內(nèi)心的一小步，等于外界的一大步。
生活，總要不斷向前看，畢竟，每一個(gè)明天都是新的一天。
讀完一本名著以后，大家一定都收獲不少，此時(shí)需要認(rèn)真地做好記錄，寫寫
《飄》英語(yǔ)讀后感1
Recently, I have read the famous novel “Gone with The Wind” by Margaret Mitchell. Each character in this book gave me a great impression.
At beginning of the book, I think Scarlet was a beautiful, lucky woman. So many young men were in love with her and they always stayed around her. But in fact ,Scarlet was not the lucky woman I thought . She was fell in love with Ashley Wilkes, but the man was not like the other boys around her. when then news came that Ashley would be married with Melanie ,she felt surprised and even couldn’t accept the fact. With the psychology of revenging Ashley, Scarlett married to Melanie’s brother before the day of Ashley’wedding.
Soon after the war broke out , many young man died ,including Scarlett’s husband. Scarlett became a widow. She couldn’t stand the boring life, so when Melanie invited her to the home of Charles’s aunt. Without more consideration ,Scarlett left for Atlanta.
One time hospital hold a party to collect contributions. Then at the party ,she met Rhett buther, the man who loves her at first sight. Although Scarlett didn’t show any good feeling to him, Rhett buther always companied her and made her happy. For several reasons, she married again,but Rhett still loved her. When her second husband died, he asked Scarlett married him. Because he believed that he understoodher and he can bring her happy. After several month ,they got married. Their life became better and happier. Later they had a litte daughter, Bonnie. Rhett loved his lovely daughter just like the way he loved Scarlett. But Scarlett still loved Ashley. Unfortunitily, Bonnie died when she rided the horse. Rhett was hurt so badly that he couldn’t stand living with Scarlett,and he decided to leave. At this time she realised that the man she really loved was Rhett, not Ashley. She tried hard to persuard Rhett not to leave her. He left .I think it was a pity, but it doomed. Although Rhett love her so much ,he could do everything to make her happy, but she never opened her heart to him and tried to understand him.
Although Scarlett’s love was end up with tragedy. But from her attitude for life,we could know that she was a strong woman.she never gave up facing endless difficulties.when the war was terrible, everything was in confusion ,Scarlett had to take Melanie left back to home, the Tara Plantation. Hopefully she wanted her parent’s help. But to her surprise, her mum had died and her father was out of normal. Situation have became more difficult. While Melanie was going to give birth to a baby. Scarlet made her mind on taking on the task. In order to keep living ,Scarlett even went to work on farm ,she planted cotton. Melanie was in poor health, but she still went to help Scarlett to do farm work. She believed Scalett and gave her unselfish love. With Menlanie’s love,Scarlett supported her home,but at this time ,she still didn’t realize how important Melanie for her. In order to solve the problem of the Tara plantation,she married to Frank. In order to make a living she also did business which was unbelievable for women in this time. She struggled with countless difficulties, but she never gave up. She still believed “Tomorrow is a new day”。
Another girl that I loved in this book is Melanie,she was very kind and gentle. She never doubted the relationship between Scarlett and Ashley, she always standed in the side of Scarlett. Although Scarlett hated her and even wanted her to die. She still believed Scalett and treated Scarlett as her best friend. Melanie loved her husband ,when her husband was fighting in the war, she always waited for him. She didn’t have the strength to give birth, but she still wanted to have a baby for Ashley, finally, she died.
These three main characters in the book are all very obvious, but different. They gave me a impression. Scarlett was a plain girl, but what she did was not plain. She didn’t stay silent during the war, she changed her own life by strugling. In fact, many people lost what they have like Scarlett,but they all gave up to strive for the happiness that essentially belonged to them. Scarlett have the braveness to change the situation. But the pity was that she didn’t recognize the real love belong her in time. If she could got deep understanding of Ashley, she may not love him. If she could open her heart to Rhett and understand him, she may realized her love to Rhett. Sometimes I couldn’t help thinking that why the author can write this moved story. Maybe she have the similar experiences.
On the whole, this is a wonderful book, I feel very grateful that I can read it. I could get many benefits from it.
《飄》英語(yǔ)讀后感2
"Gone with the wind" was a surprise, too, in the school library, where it was found to be interesting. I read the book of Margaret Mitchell, which seemed a little familiar, and turned a few pages of interest. Perhaps the book is connected with the book, inexplicable love let me love it. So I borrowed the book from the school. But when I finished reading this book, I was deeply impressed by a woman in the book, scarlett o hara.
Of course, I saw not only the bumpy fate of scarlett, but also the distress and the hardships of life at the time of the war. I read about people fighting for the death list, some tears of joy, some pain. The extreme face left a deep impression on me. Scarlett several people after days more painful, when the yankees to fight against to scarletts small town, she asked for his "rival" Melanie midwives, follow after rhett face dusty, no image with the newly production Melanie and a black girl back to her tara. But there was no grand architecture, no money, not even the most basic food and drink. This time, I saw another scarlett, although no before the outbreak of the war she was still a capricious, selfish, not big miss, but now the perfect in my eyes is not as other novel heroine now surprisingly strong. She took up the burden of eating and drinking, taking care of Melanie, the servant, and the father who had dementia. I know that her favorite mother died of cholera. The mental and physical blows that made this spectator look so painful. The despair is from scarletts heart, even the word spread to my mood - scarlett needed by his own power used up all the way the family to eat and drink and not persecuted by the war. Shes not a soldier, but shes also going to kill her.
Under the necessity of life, scarlett had to marry another man she did not love for three hundred dollars. , at that time the society really messy, just like the name of the book - "gone with the wind", as if for a moment scarlett happy life by war disrupted, all broken down, and go with the wind, all people are forced to face the harsh reality. As again immersed in their own past, in the murky societies will be like the dead in the war, pulp, scarred, can no longer be back with family members said: "Im back."
In a closely connected story, I was attracted by the tortuous love story and the reality of life and death. More importantly, I saw a womansrecalcitrant, brave, a war of terror, the destruction of people. Novel reveals the authors sympathy of slave owners, the disappointment of post-war reconstruction and the old system and the slave owners be regret of the past years, and by war, scarlett and rhett I saw love. It was just that, to my sigh, scarlett had hurt rhett in the end, and she still let rhett leave because she still loved ASHLEY. When she knew she loved rhett, rhett was no longer with her.
Thankfully, scarlett kept her own unique piece of the positive, and she said, "leave it to tomorrow." Anyway, tomorrow is another day... "Scarletts strong, undejected spirit gave me endless reflections. Vivid characters, deep thinking, and overwhelmed plot, which is the charm of this book, is not boring. If you think about it, you will always feel that the story and the woman named scarlett o hara are touching.
Scarlett, gone with the wind, let me know that the sun will still come the next day, whether we want it or not.
《飄》英語(yǔ)讀后感3
And it was only ASHLEY that she could not get. ASHLEY was a gentleman, gentle, gentle, and a good book, and he was kind, which attracted scarlett. Scarlett, surrounded by men, was confident that ASHLEY loved her and belonged to her. So when she learned that ASHLEY was about to marry Melanie, she had an unprecedented anxiety and anxiety when she learned that ASHLEY had not belonged to her. The unreable ASHLEY kept stirring scarletts heart. She was relieved that ASHLEY was fond of her, and would be penitant for herself, and dress up to attract mens attention. In the end ASHLEY didnt run away with her as she had expected, and scarlett was married to him in a flash of lightning -- with Melanies brother Charles.
Scarlett did not put down ASHLEY, but with the civil war and the turmoil of her life. Scarlett gradually realized that she did not like ASHLEY so much. When ASHLEY came back alive from the battlefield, he was ragged and haggard, and his noble qualities had vanished. When tara was suffering, ASHLEY was weak. When ASHLEY was managed by scarlett, he managed a lumber mill, but it was badly run. Scarlett could not but acknowledge the years. In fact, I love only the perfect ASHLEY, so many years of persistence because I didnt get it.
Sometimes we struggle and persist for what we cant get, and forget whether it is a matter of thinking or feeling. It was like scarlett finally realized that she was really in love with rhett, before her obsession and obsession, just because she couldnt get it. There are always a lot of things in life that you cant get, but its time to let go and take a long view. Sometimes, not get, dont, pay more attention to the people and things around them, polish their hearts, there will be other discoveries.
《飄》英語(yǔ)讀后感4
"Gone with the wind", a novel by American writer Margaret Mitchell, is one of my favorite books. I like scarletts brave and brave, like rhetts quick and decisive, like Melanies outside soft.
I felt ambivalent about scarlett, but I hated and had to admire her. I admire her for her strong, admire her persistence for land, admire her can in the education of environment down had had changed work, admire her can disregard social comments on and start my own business. She is beautiful and willful, not a popular person. She would play tricks, but she was tough, she was passionate, she was a lovely woman. She likes the happiness and the rich life, she has been pursuing her ideal love. But destiny is not so simple. She was a very personable figure, and she had loved two men in her life, and she had not known one. If she knew ASHLEY, she would not love him; If she knew rhett, she wouldnt lose him. Shes been living up to rhett, and shes just chasing the prince of her dreams -- ASHLEY. She just thought that ASHLEY had it, she just made a gorgeous dress that ASHLEY put on and fell in love with him. And the truth is, she just loves that dress.
Scarletts life has several souls, one of her mother. Her mother was a very capable, gentle and typical lady, who she admired most. However, the mother died of typhoid fever to save her life. The other, ASHLEY, was her favorite for more than a decade. She was able to stand up in the face of adversity, in large part because of ASHLEY. She was very dedicated to ASHLEY. And one, Melanie. For more than a decade, Melanie had become an indispensable part of her life.
I think each of us will have our own desires, and everyone is pursuing their own happiness. Desire can be a motivation for us. This desire leads to the development of culture and technology, which also leads to crime and war. Desire is very important to us. We will pursue our own happiness, although we will encounter many difficulties and disputes, but we should not give up our own desires and pursuits. As she said: "I am too tired to think today. Think about it tomorrow! We can rest, but we must not give up.
