Eliminate Internal Negative Chatter
The first step is one of awareness. It will be hard to make a change to positive thinking without being acutely intimate with the thoughts that run through your mind. Recently, I was amazed to discover deep buried emotions from negative thoughts that I had for fewer than 10 minutes. Without awareness, I would have carried the hurt and anger inside. Awareness helped me to bring them out to the open for me to deal with.
Undoubtedly it will not be easy to make a switch if you have a long history or negative self talk. Your talk became negative over the years due to various factors. For instance, if your first grade teacher repeatedly told you that you were "stupid", you might believe it to be truly the case. You would find that your inner chatter would often be filled with talk of "I am so slow" and "it is so hard to learn". If you constantly tell yourself such negative stories, your actions are going to reflect your low self esteem. It will be difficult to get very far if you are always putting yourself down.
A common negative talk involves telling yourself "I can’t". When you say to yourself "I can’t" or "it is too difficult", you are creating a resistance. Having such a mental block will prevent you from achieving a task you could otherwise succeed at.
Anytime you catch yourself saying "I can’t…", turn around and challenge your own claim with, "Why can’t I?" Research shows that most geniuses became the people they are also because of the hard work they put in. So if you would like to be successful, you need to start saying "I can" a lot more.
A great method that I have also found useful is to say "Cancel Cancel" each time I find myself saying something negative, whether in the mind or verbally. The method works if you sincerely have the intent of becoming a positive thinker.
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positive Affirmations
Affirmations are positive statements of a desired outcome or goal. They are usually short, believable and focused. By repeating them over and over again, you build inroads into your subconscious mind, opening up the possibility of a new state of thoughts.
An important step when repeating affirmations is that you need to read your affirmations aloud with feeling. The mere reading of the words bears no consequence unless you put some emotions behind them. Of significant fact is that your subconscious mind takes any orders given in complete faith and after repeated self talk. So the daily practice of repeating affirmations is important.
Initially you may be skepticism toward the statement of your positive affirmation. However, if you follow this simple set of instructions your skepticism will soon give way to a new set of beliefs and then crystallized into absolute faith.
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positive Scripts
One thing that you may observe is on how easy it is for your mind to build negative thought upon negative thought. The chatter not only does not stop but it spins a drama that traps and limits you.
From now on, regularly do this exercise instead. Spin an uplifting story that runs like a movie script. Some visualization will be helpful. You build on a story with a positive outline. The longer you can tell this story to yourself the better. It is also best if you can make this story one about having all your goals achieved. When you do this, you start to internalize your goals and dreams, as if they are something that you have already achieved.
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Replace Negative Influences with positive Ones
It is important that you identify external negative factors in your life which may be holding your thoughts hostage. For instance, your mental state can become toxic by being around friends who are negative. If you are not vigilant enough, you will start to adopt their thoughts as your own. Hence, be alert to what your negative influences are. If they come from certain friends, limit your exposure to them as much as you can. Refrain from discussing your plans with people who will be unsupportive of your dreams and goals.
Instead surround yourself with thoughts and actions from people who will empower you.
From being uninspired and de-motivated, you will begin to feel uplifted and driven to greater self growth. The positive energy that they vibrate will start affecting the self talk that you engage in as well.
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Present Tense Messages
You may find yourself daunted by the many things you need to do in order to reach your goals. It just seems overwhelming to become the success that you secretly desire for. Your mind gets caught up in an endless stream of worry.
What may be helpful is to concentrate on steps you can take in the present. If you find yourself becoming stuck, stop and say, "What can I do right now?" Change your internal talk from a future anxiety ridden one to one that is about the more manageable present. You cannot control what will happen in the future but you can take the necessary steps now that will build a better tomorrow. Taking the necessary steps require you to focus your thoughts and inner talk on Now.
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Confront Fears
Fear is often what holds you back from your success. You are scared of taking chances because you fear losing the security that you enjoy now. You try to convince yourself that you are happy in your current state when in fact, you are not. Your self talk may sound positive in your attempt to lie to yourself. But somehow, there is an inner knowing that you are short changing yourself.
Ask yourself what you are afraid of. What can be the worst that can happen? Take a step-by-step approach in breaking down your fears and see if there is any way round to looking at things more positively. When you confront your fears, you will often realize that the worst case scenario is not as bad as you think. In fact, the benefits of change are worth the risk. Your inner talk begins to change at this point.
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(一)英語(yǔ)美文摘抄
Man's youth is a wonderful thing: it is so full of anguish and of magic and he never comes to know it as it is, until it has gone from him forever. It is the thing he cannot bear to lose, it is the thing whose passing he watches with infinite sorrow and regret, it is the thing whose loss with a sad and secret joy, the thing he would never willingly relive again, could it be restored to him by any magic.
青春奇妙無(wú)窮,充滿(mǎn)魅力,充滿(mǎn)痛楚。青春年少的時(shí)候根本不知青春為何物,直到青春一去不復(fù)返啦才對(duì)青春有啦真正的認(rèn)識(shí)。誰(shuí)都想讓青春永駐,不忍青春離去; 眼睜睜地看著青春流逝,心中會(huì)涌起無(wú)窮的憂(yōu)傷和惋惜;青春的失去是人們永遠(yuǎn)感到悲哀的事;青春的失去是人們真正覺(jué)得悲喜交集的事;即便奇跡出現(xiàn)青春復(fù)蘇, 誰(shuí)都不會(huì)心甘情愿重度青春的歲月。
(二)英語(yǔ)美文摘抄
Why is this? The reason is that the strange and bitter miracle of life is nowhere else so evident as in our youth. And what is the essence of that strange and bitter miracle of life which we feel so poignant , so unutterable, with such a bitter pain and joy, when we are young? It is this: that being rich, we are so poor; that being mighty, we can yet have nothing; that seeing, breathig, smelling, tasting all around us the impossible wealth and glory of this earth, feeling with an intolerable certitude that the whole structure of the enchanted life – the most fortunate, wealthy, good, and happy life that any man has ever known – is ours – is ours at once, immediately and forever, the moment that we choose to take a step, or stretch a hand, or say a word—— we yet know that we can really keep, hold, take, and possess forever—— nothing. All passes; nothing lasts: the moment that we put our hand upon it , it melts away like smoke, is gone forever, and the snake is eating at our heart again; we see then what we are and what our lives must come to.
為什么如此?因?yàn)樵谇啻簳r(shí)代,生活充滿(mǎn)啦奇特而辛酸的不可思議的事。我們?cè)谇啻耗晟贂r(shí)帶著悲喜交集的心情,十分強(qiáng)烈而不可名狀地感受到人生的奇特辛酸、不 可思議的經(jīng)歷。其實(shí)質(zhì)是什么呢?其實(shí)質(zhì)是這樣的:青春年少的時(shí)候,雖然殷實(shí)富足,卻非常貧窮;雖然力氣強(qiáng)大,卻一無(wú)所有;世間的富貴榮華觸目皆是,簡(jiǎn)直可 以呼吸到,聞到嗅到,還可以品嘗到,心中的自信按捺不住,深切地感受到整個(gè)被陶醉啦的生活——人類(lèi)迄今為止所知道的最幸運(yùn)、最富有的美好幸福的.生活, 只要我們決定向前邁步,奮發(fā)努力,便立即歸我們所有啦,并將永遠(yuǎn)屬于我們。然而,我們知道,我們真的永遠(yuǎn)不能抓到什么,永遠(yuǎn)不能獲得什么,永遠(yuǎn)不能占有什 么。一切匆匆過(guò)去,蕩然無(wú)存。我們一出手它就煙消云散,飄然而去,一去不復(fù)返啦。于是,心中泛起陣陣隱痛,看到啦自己真實(shí)的面孔,看到啦自己未來(lái)生活的必 然走向。
(三)英語(yǔ)美文摘抄
Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees; it is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life.
Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the love of ease.
This often exists in a man of 60 more than a boy of 20. Nobody grows old merely by a number of years. We grow old by deserting our ideals.
Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry, fear, self-distrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.
Whether 60 or 16, there is in every human being’s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing appetite for what’s next and the joy of the game of living.
In the center of your heart and my heart, there is a wireless station; so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, courage and power from man and from the infinite, so long as you are young.
When your aerials are down, and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you’ve grown old, even at 20; but as long as your aerials are up, to catch waves of optimism, there’s hope you may die young at 80.
青春不是年華,而是心境;青春不是桃面、丹唇、柔膝,而是深沉的意志,恢宏的想象,炙熱的戀情;青春是生命的深泉在涌流。
青春氣貫長(zhǎng)虹,勇銳蓋過(guò)怯弱,進(jìn)取壓倒茍安。如此銳氣,二十后生而有之,六旬男子則更多見(jiàn)。年歲有加,并非垂老,理想丟棄,方墮暮年。
歲月悠悠,衰微只及肌膚;熱忱拋卻,頹廢必致靈魂。憂(yōu)煩,惶恐,喪失自信,定使心靈扭曲,意氣如灰。
無(wú)論年屆花甲,擬或二八芳齡,心中皆有生命之歡樂(lè),奇跡之誘惑,孩童般天真久盛不衰。人人心中皆有一臺(tái)天線,只要你從天上人間接受美好、希望、歡樂(lè)、勇氣和力量的信號(hào),你就青春永駐,風(fēng)華常存。 、
一旦天線下降,銳氣便被冰雪覆蓋,玩世不恭、自暴自棄油然而生,即使年方二十,實(shí)已垂垂老矣;然則只要樹(shù)起天線,捕捉樂(lè)觀信號(hào),你就有望在八十高齡告別塵寰時(shí)仍覺(jué)年輕。
長(zhǎng)篇英語(yǔ)美文摘抄1
In a few years, I have not set foot on this moonlit path. The path is the father's hand with the cobblestone, the moonlight under the dim light of soft. At the end of the road, the little hut on the side of the river was connected to my father. Father, do you still sit on the shore, blowing the flute plaintive, waiting for the return of his son?
Loving father of piper. When I was young, my father sound full of my childhood fun, like the ribbon Creek, pulling my heart around in the father love of the harbor. My father hurts my only son, and he likes to use rough pairs.
Hand pinch my face, regardless of my pain to cry, still silly smile. Every single day, my father took me to the river on the grass cattle. My father often let their cattle rope let the cattle graze himself from the grass behind the basket in his flute, muster cheek, blowing out the most beautiful music in the world. I leaned on my father's legs, watching the sunset at the end of the sky to dye my father's hair blonde. I love my father, the most beautiful sound of father.
With the growth of the age, I began to hate his father, he was full of hate the smell of smoke, hate his yellow teeth; hate him back to the school to find me a basket of grass, also from the window just staring at me, I also hate him no skill, only know how to handle a few acres of thin, even my tuition has not been able to earn. My father and I were gradually separated. After I was roared for a few times, my father no longer went to school to see me barefoot, no longer nagging me to study well. He kept silent, and the only way to break the silence is playing the flute, such as resentment, such as mu, and in my opinion, it has become a symbol of raffish.
I went to school to go to school. The night before I left, I walked up to the familiar path and felt a bit of love and love. The road is like the trace of the moonlight on the ground, and it has crossed my heart. I haven't returned home for a few years. My mother told me on the phone, I go after father's day, like a lost soul like, Chafanbusi, just go to the river to play the flute. Finally, I returned home at the request of my mother. It was the night at home, the moon was rising, and when I was walking on the path with endless thoughts, I met my father. I was all of a sudden cry, clinging to the father. I asked my father gave me a piper, his father promised. The siren sounded in the ears and choked, ringing in the moonlight on the path, remind me. I feel that the father bring love, feel unworthy of his flute, father love me, love my son. He has been blowing the flute for eighteen years for me, and I've only now found that it resonates so strongly with my heart.
The road is beautiful and beautiful, it is the mark of the month. April is the road of the soul, the father is my heart!
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It's still the way, the way to the school. It has been wearing a lot of dust all the time, making it impossible to see its brilliance. I can't find the scenery along the road or the end.
But on this day, it looks like it. The red brick is covered with the original bare soil, mild suppressed, the soil will no longer have the sand filled impulse, red and white color was dotted with monotonous scenery, let the silent streets have a humorous mood. I embarked on this road and connected with the heart of the earth. The verdant green also replaced the former barren, although no spring buds of the primary green, no summer lush with the game, but they stand upright, dedicated to the surrounding land, people at ease. I was leaning against a tree, and I felt that the future had a different and long road, and whether there was a beautiful landscape along the way.
At a glance, I found them on the way. They have a black rose like skin, hard and still firm eyes, shovel, hammer tools standing beside it. I can stay, yeah, the scenery is such kind of people as they create, in order to complete such a scenery, they suffer many times from the sun baked, they spend many youth when they are migrant workers from afar, they are the scenery of the creator, the foundation they are also the times. Maybe they didn't dream very far away, they only wanted to bring the future to their families, so they came to their strange city, sniffing the breath of the heavy city and doing their humble work. But they exist, is the city's roots, without them, the scenery of the city, high-rise buildings, beautiful downtown, lush green will be broken up. Their hearts maintain family and country, let each other heart beat, passion and power.
The road is a landscape, they are — — the thousands of workers are more scenic. They are like the spring thaw, full of vitality and hope, all the students like summer, fully equipped for: simple and heavy: like autumn, and winter fruits: lingering sentiments, shy, proud and clank.
It's still the way, but I know why I go, because it's the way to the future.